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\u9084\u6709\u5e7e\u500b\u5c0f\u6642,\u8c6c\u5c0f\u5f1f\u5c31\u56de\u5bb6\u4e86,\u4f46\u9858\u4ed6\u60f3\u5ff5\u6211\u5011,\u6253\u958b\u96fb\u8166\u7ffb\u770b\u7167\u7247\u7684\u6642\u5019,\u7b2c\u4e00\u6642\u9593\u770b\u5230\u6211\u7d66\u4ed6\u7684\u5927\u79ae\u2500\u2500\u5bb6\u6c92\u6709\u56fa\u6709\u7684\u6a21\u5f0f,\u5bb6\u4e0d\u5206\u5730\u57df,\u6c92\u6709\u8ddd\u96e2,\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u60c5\u611f\u7684\u4fe1\u8cf4\u8207\u7cbe\u795e\u7684\u627f\u50b3.\u5bb6\u4f7f\u6211\u5011\u5373\u4f7f\u76f8\u8ddd\u5f88\u9060,\u5fc3\u537b\u4ecd\u662f\u5f88\u8fd1\uff01<\/p>\n<p>\u8a18\u65bc2009\u5e741\u670812\u65e5,\u8c6c\u5c0f\u5f1f\u56de\u6eab\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u5929<\/p>\n<p>Hi hi sister,<\/p>\n<p>I received your \u5927\u79ae already and thanks so much~!<br \/>Just want to say that I really appreciate it.<br \/>I know that you are not used to reading english so I&#039;ll try to keep it short.<\/p>\n<p>I have always knew that it was tough for you when you were a child. But I think this is the first time I have hear about it with such detail and it is even tougher than I have always imagine.<br \/>Thanks for sharing with me your experience. I think you taught me a lession by telling me this past of our family. It is probably too complex to explain in detail here what I felt, but know that you really helped open my mind to something that will be of great help to me.<\/p>\n<p>Do not blame yourself for not coming to Vancouver. Because just like wat you said, being separated helped us grow up a lot.<br \/>Most important of all do not feel bad for having Owen and Otto. Your two babies gave our family so much happiness that it might very well be the best thing that have ever happened to our family yet! Just look at all the laughter, especially from Dad and Mom, because of Owen and Otto and we all should know that no matter what it is all worth it. Just like what you said, I&#039;m grown up now. I need to learn how to take care of myself and deal with the world by myself. I&#039;m truely happy that Mom got to go back to Macau and have such a good time with Dad and you and your family. Mom and Dad worked so hard for the rest of their lives solely for us, it is now time for them to enjoy all that they could.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#039;t worry about me. I will figure out a way. I will make it work. Because at the end of the day, no matter what hardship the world throws at me, I know that I have you all as my backbone. A backup so strong that I am never afriad to face the cold harsh world alone.<\/p>\n<p>You are right. Being separated from you all does make me lonely. However, it has also helped me see and feel so much more clearly just how powerful our great family bold is and how helpful it can be. So, as lonely as it can get sometimes, I still feel blessed to be able to have this experience, more or less just like your experience being alone when you were a child.<\/p>\n<p>So, take care, my good sister. No matter how far I am I will always feel your love and I am grateful for it. Do not worry about me and good luck with your work. 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